I meant to reply to this awhile ago but life got in the way...
I appreciate people getting married the second time even more because they have LIVED that shit and survived. And they presumably have learned and grown and have experience and perspective.. Something many people who are in their first "real" relationship don't have. And they know what or is to go through all that pain but still love enough to risk it. Its admirable, not scornful IMHO.
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Date: 2014-05-12 06:09 pm (UTC)I appreciate people getting married the second time even more because they have LIVED that shit and survived. And they presumably have learned and grown and have experience and perspective.. Something many people who are in their first "real" relationship don't have. And they know what or is to go through all that pain but still love enough to risk it. Its admirable, not scornful IMHO.