That makes sense. I used to mess up a lot of things myself, because I felt like things would mess up anyway and it gave me some sense of control. Weird, I know!
Hope I didn't offend anyone by referring to my family members as martyrs and victims! Some of them take it a step further by making "I've been so wronged" the basis for their entire identity. It's just really uncomfortable for me when they want so much negative attention ALL THE TIME.
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Date: 2010-03-24 03:02 pm (UTC)Hope I didn't offend anyone by referring to my family members as martyrs and victims! Some of them take it a step further by making "I've been so wronged" the basis for their entire identity. It's just really uncomfortable for me when they want so much negative attention ALL THE TIME.