brdgt: (Afterglow by Iconomicon)
Brdgt ([personal profile] brdgt) wrote2013-02-19 02:00 pm

Afterglow

The past few days have been so nice. Both of us have enjoyed all the many congratulations we've received and conversations with people about the engagement. Everyone is so happy for us and love the proposal story. We've gotten phone calls, emails, texts, facebook messages, and even song dedications - they are all so sweet. I didn't realize how much fun it would be!

My friend Kelly gave me a great piece of advice - wait until the shiny afterglow wears off before even thinking about all the pesky planning (which, I'm not really looking forward to, which I fear may come as a disappointment to some of my loved ones!)
mizrobot: (smooch)

[personal profile] mizrobot 2013-02-19 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
That is great advice. I made some hasty decisions, and I don't regret them, but might have done something different if I hadn't launched into planning so excitedly. And you know we will all be here with lots of suggestions if you ever need more advice. :)

Besides the whole lifelong commitment to the person I love part, my favorite part of the engagement/wedding process was how much everyone pulled together for us and how happy they were. It was so fun and heartwarming!

[identity profile] brdgt.livejournal.com 2013-02-19 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
You guys will be a life saver, I'm sure! A big difference for me is that I've already planned one wedding, so I don't feel the need (or think it's very appropriate) for me to do something traditional. But, this is his first (and only!) wedding, so I want his family to get some of the experience they want too...
Edited 2013-02-19 21:39 (UTC)